Experiences of Life

Miracles Do Happen...!!!

2011-05-28T23:04:00.006+01:00

It was a Saturday and I had my fasting as usual, I was driving my SUV with my dad and two of my niece and nephew.

It was a pleasant trip indeed to our farm house and while coming back to our home town we were in all good mood.

Everyone in my family says I am the best driver in our family and it was proven many times. i live with my parents and my brothers and sis-in-laws. But it was definitely not the like old times. Returning home is always a happy moment for me, so I was looking forward to get back home and relax but suddenly on the national highway, a very delicate moment and my nephew open the window and bent out of window, I saw him and wanted to grab my five year old nephew and lost the control of my wheels and went off track, this was not enough that one of my tyre burst at the speed of 90 and my car got upside down still not stopped and got scrached for about 50 metres.

I got a seat belt on, so the only survivor of this accident and everyone got injuries. My beloved nephew got hurt very badly, almost lost his feet and got skinned off all his back, leg and hands. We stayed on the footpath for half an hour in the search of help and finally reached hospital where he stayed a week in an ICU. Doctors had the first case where they took about 800ml blood and other fluids from his lungs got severe injuries in legs but still no infections at all. He lost his four fingers of left leg but got rapid recovery and cheated death.

My niece got head injury and some scraches on hands and facial injuries but she recovered fast as well.

During the stay in hospital for about a month, I was cursing myself that why I got no injuries at all and kids are in severe condition but then God replied me by a realization that God had saved me to bring them to get medical help at time as doctors have told me that I was in time otherwise if little late by 20 minutes and I would have lost my nephew who is more than anything to me.

Prayers, prayers and only prayers that have strengthen our family and bring back my kids as it was a miracle for doctors too to sustain these injuries. I definitely believe that Lord Jesus is just there to help me every now and then no matter how worst situation it is.

Only thing to understand that Jesus is the answer of every problems...

What is Love ... ???

2010-11-30T20:54:00.000Z

Love commits no conditions not even expectations but surely the two way interaction at the most. Love is not about giving or receiving gifts but about sharing each other's feelings and letting each other know how much you really care for.You need to be romantic, creative and unique. The best way to show someone you really care is by words and how your actions make them feel special. You need to say something coming from the heart and show them from your Soul. Love them for who they are and not for who you are.

Loneliness is Something that You Can't Share...

2010-10-18T06:16:00.001+01:00

Probably the most painful human experience, apart from physical pain itself, is loneliness.

For social animals like us, the worst feeling in the world is to be trapped on a desert island with no one who cares about us, interacts with us and witnesses what we are doing. Sure, we might find it relaxing for a few days, as a break from the engulfment we often feel in the company of others, but after a while any island is going to feel like hell.

We need to be acknowledged and responded to because it is a fundamental source of our meaning. Babies and young children need others to interact with to form their personalities, and one of the most terrifying things to them is to be left alone. Without this interaction, even in the presence of food and physical protection, they will simply die.

Adults also need interaction with others, even if they can get along longer without it. Loneliness is the absence of meaningful interaction when you want it, and over time it can knaw away at you, either stealing the life from you or driving you to do some desperate things.

The attempt to avoid loneliness is one of the great motivators of human behavior, both functional and dysfunctional. When you seek sensations, you are trying to drive away loneliness. You are hoping for some acknowledgement from the world that you exist. This quest is not always successful, in that the things we do to try to escape loneliness sometimes only make it worse, but loneliness is still the driving force.

The sex drive is a mask for loneliness. Yes, humans are drawn to mate by hormonal responses and a desire for orgasm, but the main thing that colors sex is the feeling that this act is going to relieve ones inner emptiness.

When a man engages a prostitute, he can't realistically expect a meaningful relationship, but at a hidden emotional level he is actually hoping for one. Even a momentary paid contact with another person feels better than no contact at all—or at least it promises to feel better when the man is making his plans. This is why the man needs a live prostitute and isn't satisfied with, say, pornography or a blow-up doll. In his imagination at least, the prostitute promises to acknowledge him and love him for who he is.

It is crazy to think this way, but loneliness makes people do crazy things. They'll grasp at any chance, no matter how unlikely, to try to relieve it. They will respond to late-night infomercials, falling for any far-fetched sales pitch to try to relieve their void. They will buy useless products and wear silly fashions that make them seem part of an interactive group. The fact that these efforts rarely work, except to occupy time, doesn't prevent people from trying.

The funny thing about loneliness is that it isn't really a function of your physical interaction with others. You can be surrounded by people—a big family, for example—and still be profoundly lonely. You can be married and involved in a peaceful, caring and outwardly successful partnership, and loneliness still haunts you.

Relationships can be some of the loneliest places in the world, as frightening as any desert island, because it's the quality of the interaction that matters, not its quantity. In fact, it's not even the actual quality of the relationship that determines loneliness but the perceived quality of it.

If you are raising a busy family and interacting with an attentive spouse, you can still feel lonely if your think these people aren't acknowledging you in ways you see as important. Many marriages disintegrate on these grounds, because there is nominal interaction but no perceived communication.

These needs, in fact, are often unfulfillable. Some people are dissatisfied with every relationship because their expectations are so high. They expect all of their loneliness to be resolved, all their voids filled up, when in fact loneliness is an unavoidable quality of existence that, if you are truly alive, will come back to haunt you again and again. Even in the best relationship in the world, you are still going to feel it occasionally.

Loneliness is one of the great human motivators, but that doesn't mean loneliness is solvable. You can find satisfying engagement for a while, but it doesn't exist in a steady state, and it can't be nailed down. It is a mistake to think you can wipe away loneliness by, say, getting married or joining a group. Instead, these things often assure your loneliness in the long run by reducing your ability to change.

Loneliness is the feeling you get when you aren't getting enough... something. What that something is is the big question. It's not sex; it's not sensory stimulation and it's not raw social interaction. When you are lonely, you are missing a certain quality of interaction that's inherently hard to pin down.

If you are living in a family with 16 siblings and you still feel lonely, it is because you feel that you are not being seen. What can erase this feeling? If someone took an interest in you, that might do it, but only for a while. Sooner or later, in any static relationship, the loneliness is going to return.

The only treatment for loneliness is movement -- not movement for the sake of movement, but the meaningful pursuit of goals.

You might be stranded on a desert island, but if you added a few people and had an important mission together, your loneliness wouldn't seem nearly so bad.

Source : Glenn Campbell